I often have the same dream. It isn’t the same in all ways – it can involve different people, different events and different settings, but in essence it’s always the same.
In my dream, I am usually with another man. Sometimes it is an ex (I don’t enjoy these), sometimes it’s someone I know in real life but don’t have feeling for (those ones are weird), and sometimes it’s a completely fictional character.
I’m not always sure if I’m cheating on my boyfriend or not, sometimes it seems like I’m just not with him any more. And things are generally going along fine with whatever man I happen to be with at the time (I would like to point out now that, though there have been a lot of men in my dreams, there have only been a fraction in real life!)
What’s always the same with my dreams is that I ultimately end up with my real boyfriend. Sometimes I may even be cheating on the other party with my boyfriend. But what’s interesting is that I always feel more relaxed and happier when I eventually find him again.
I am always relieved when I wake up and realise I was with him all along.
Is this my brain’s way of testing my relationship and telling me I’m with the right man?
It really sounds like you know with certainty that you’ve found your optimal partner and that you wouldn’t want to be with anyone else. That’s fantastic.
In my dreams I usually don’t end up with my bf – unless it’s an arranged marriage with him, which then ends whatever fantastic secret fling I had with some fictional guy.
But seriously though, I don’t think my dreams are that bad either, they’re just a way of feeling that rush of a new crush (involuntary rhyming, sorry) without jeopardising my relationship in a real life.
Tiina – I definitely understand those other kind of dreams too. I sometimes wish for that rush too, but I obviously know what I have now is worth more than that in so many ways.
I am not sure if it is your dreams trying to tell you that you’re with the right man. Dreams are just weird … I had been through similar situation but most time I was with a fictional character.
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BK – Dreams are very weird, you’re right. It’s the fact that I keep having it that makes me feel as though it’s even weirder!
Dreams are sometimes actualization of our subconscious. It sometimes acts out repressed emotions, memories and regrets in life. In most instances, dreams are meaningless and incoherent. A recurrent dream has deeper meaning and must be analyzed thoroughly for its meaning. Thanks for the post. God bless you always.
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Mel – Thank you for your comments, you’re right about dreams acting out repressed feelings, sometimes it’s hard to understand them.
There are so many different ways to interpret dreams. There must be more symbols in there that’ll more accurately help you find out what this recurring dream is telling you.
Though sometimes, dreams can be quite simple. My first reaction was: The question about whether he’s the right one for you is on your mind a lot, and it seems like you’re mentally/emotionally exploring the way other men make you feel… but at the end of the day you come to realise that no one makes you feel as good as he does.
Heh. But I’m not even close to being an expert that I shouldn’t even be allowed to use the word!
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p.s. LOVE the new layout
I bought one too recently actually… but haven’t put it up yet. OOPS!
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fragile – Thanks for the comment about the layout – look forward to seeing yours when you get a chance to install it!
As for my dream, yes I feel it must be on my mind a lot too. I wonder why?? Maybe it’s because I’ve never been in a relationship so long. It really is weird.
Oh that’s actually really sweet! It’s amazing if you can find what you’ve been looking for all along at the end of each of those dreams, only even better because when you wake up you realise it’s true… major aww
I think the purpose of the other men in those dreams is merely for comparison, to show that your boyfriend is so much better! You’re one lucky girl 
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Bitter- That’s a nice way of looking at it
Dreams are hard to predict. I always dream about reading a book or doing some mathematical calculation while I am sleeping. Oh my. I had a bad life. Really.
Perhaps, just perhaps that your boyfriend is trying to test your faith in your relationship in the near future. Haha. Who knows?